Saturday, November 12, 2011

Dont you find, when you havent got it, theyre everywhere!!!?

I know how you feel. Back when i'd lost my babies, it seemed everywhere i looked i saw babies, and was really hard. I even started avoiding some friends because seeing their babies was heartwrenching. Its strange that now i am pregnant, although i see plenty of mothers with babies or toddlers in strollers, i dont see any pregnant bellies unless i have an antenatal appointment.. Which can make me feel like the odd one out when i'm out and about.. You will have a baby so don't lose faith, but sometimes the journey getting there isn't as easy for some as it is for others. It wasn't for me either. A friend of mine was trying to conceive for 10 years before she finally fell pregnant. Now she's like a rabbit, and doesn't seem to stop.. Stay positive, and make sure you're doing the right things to increase chances.. Such as every other day minimum, (dont overdo it, or you'll knacker the quality of sperm) shove a pillow under your hips to give sperm a direct route, Make sure your partner doesn't wear tight undies or jeans, as it's important his testicles are kept at the right temperature, (being confined too close to the body overheats them, which affects sperm quality according to my mums friend who's a fertility expert, so they have to "hang in the natural body position" Boxer shorts are much more practical) watch your diet and his! Eat lots of green healthy stuff, and most importantly don't forget your folic acid! Naturally, i'm sure you know all this already! Good luck, and lots of baby dust..

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