How to win over mind?

one can win his mind by controlling through his intellectual.and intellectual should be pure driven by soul.when you can not see your self in this body with these eyes you have then how is possible to see some thing unvisible with them .so pls try to feel the way your teacher said .when your intellecual will be stayble then your soul or your self will appear through your feelings.there will be no more mind no intellectual ,only you will remain. stay in that level(stage)as long as you can.then you will achieve.........untill next. thanks.