41 weeks. Not dilated, haven't lost mucus plug...?

I'm 41 weeks today exactly. I'm really trying to stay away from getting induced, because it seems that the more intervention doctors do, the more complications come up. I've been drinking red raspberry tea, and i bought some evening primrose today and will start taking it tomorrow. I'm just getting really frustrated and it seems like the finish line isn't in sight at all, when it should have been a few weeks ago. I'm also really really really getting frazzled due to ALL of the people pestering me about being SO late... but it's SEVEN days. I thought it was normal for women to be late with their pregnancy. Has anyone else been later or this late and have advice on natural ways to get things goine???